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Dating Coaching

"Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction."

— Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

About Dating Coaching

We specialize in helping you to identify and overcome subconscious walls that are getting in the way of finding a relationship. As we bring awareness to those walls and begin to heal, you will begin to experience your dating life in a radically new way.

Trying to find the right person can be a painful task. When we can’t seem to find a match or when we move from one failed relationship to another, we begin to question if something is wrong with us and it can become difficult to trust ourselves to navigate the complex waters of the dating world. We’ll help you learn to trust yourself, develop confidence in yourself, and overcome the obstacles that are getting in the way of love. We’ll provide you with practical exercises to develop confidence as well as help you explore the deep, underlying issues that need healing. You will learn to become free, confident, and grounded within yourself so that you can find a partner who can meet your needs.

Often dating comes with a connection to fantasy and reality colliding together, creating confusion and difficulty in certain situations. Many individuals who are currently dating have constant thoughts about trust, settling for less than what is truly wanted, or why they are broken up with. These everyday stressors can negatively impact one’s dating life and put a hold to finding a desired relationship.

Dating Coaching can help you:

  • Overcome self-esteem issues, insecurity, and body image issues.
  • Develop more confidence in who you are and what you have to offer.
  • Identify and remove subconscious walls that get in the way of potential partners seeing who you really are.
  • Become aware of ways in which you may inadvertently sabotage your relationships.
  • Change the unhealthy patterns in your relationships and begin to relate to your partners in a new, healthy way.
  • Trace the roots of your attraction to partners who may not be able to meet your needs.
  • Begin to heal the underlying issues that get in the way of having close, stable relationships with people who love and respect you.
  • Become more independent so that you are entering into a partnership out of love rather than out of neediness or fear of being alone.

Multi-Dimensional Dating Assessment

We’ll give you concrete feedback about how to improve your dating life by looking at all of the different dimensions that factor into attraction including:

• Body language – What message is your body language sending that you might not be aware of?
• Speech – How you speak can actually be more important to a potential match than what you say.
• Triggers – We’ll help you identify specific trigger points that cause you to put up emotional walls that sabotage your dating life. We will explore and overcome the underlying issues so that can interact with more openness and ease.
• Authenticity – We’ll help you connect with your true self so that you can make deep connections with other good people.
• Fear and anxiety – Together we will examine how anxiety and fear play into your dating life and we will begin to make choices that are guided by what you want rather than fear.
• Identifying red flags and overreactions – We’ll help you understand the difference between a true red flag and an overreaction based on your fears.

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Online Dating Profile Consultation

With the advent of social media, online dating, and texting, dating has become more complex than ever. As someone who is familiar with the complexity and nuances of dating in the modern world, we can help guide you through the confusion and help you learn about yourself and grow in the process.

We offer online dating profile consultation services in order to help you showcase yourself in the most compelling way possible to give you the best chance of attracting your soulmate.

For many people, it can be difficult to convey their personality in writing. We can help you create an online dating profile that captures the essence of who you are and helps you attract the partner you’re dreaming of. We will identify what signals you are sending through your pictures and writing that you may not be aware of and we will help you create a profile that is congruent with what you really want. we will help you realign your actions, words, and pictures with your intentions.

What Our Clients Say

I am blown away! I don’t write testimonials, unless I have been extremely moved by something. I was blessed to...

I am blown away! I don’t write testimonials, unless I have been extremely moved by something. I was blessed to work with Brooke on a single session, and before this I was in therapy on and off with multiple therapists for the last 20 years of my life. Brooke was able to do more in one session than many years of work with my previous therapist. She has the true gift of great insight and compassion while also getting straight to the heart of your blind spots and unconscious issues in a way that has truly changed my life.

Skyler J.

There are people who are good at their work there are people like Brooke: who are born to do it....

There are people who are good at their work there are people like Brooke: who are born to do it. I cannot recommend Brooke more highly. I can only imagine where I would be today if I had started working with her years ago. From the beginning of our session, she knew exactly what tools and questions that would work for my particular psychology and my personal experience. No other therapist has been able to do that or anything close.

What I also really appreciate from our session is Brooke's ability to go directly to the source of the issue while also keeping a very gentle and kind energy with me. I felt very seen, understood, and supported. Everything and more that I could have ever asked for from a therapist. I have a severe trauma history and complex issues she was able to immediately identify and help. If she could help me, I know she can help you too.

Taylor E.

You did more in 45 minutes than my last therapist did in a year.

You did more in 45 minutes than my last therapist did in a year.

Jamie

With your help, I've finally started to understand that while my vivid imagination often wants to create terrifying monsters under...

With your help, I've finally started to understand that while my vivid imagination often wants to create terrifying monsters under the bed, in a lot of cases those monsters are nothing more than a heap of decidedly less-terrifying laundry I've avoided for too long that just needs to be aired out and put away. Which is definitely a lot easier than monster slaying. Thank you for shedding light in the dark places I was too afraid to face alone.

Morgan B.

I am extremely fortunate to work with Sydney, who is helping me create real internal change. The talent to listen...

I am extremely fortunate to work with Sydney, who is helping me create real internal change. The talent to listen well is Hall of Fame stuff, and she has that. She then follows with questions, strategies that are organic to the moment. I have come to believe that deep, radical, if occasionally deeply painful change ... and, then, healing can happen. I'm just at the lip of that last part - but would not have gotten there, AT ALL, without Sydney

Ric K.

The best therapist ever! Life-changing 🙂

The best therapist ever! Life-changing 🙂

Catherine H.

Right now, the work is changing my life, sometimes in inches, sometimes in miles.

Right now, the work is changing my life, sometimes in inches, sometimes in miles.

Ric K.

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