Use Unhealthy Relationships to Awaken
to Transform Your Love Life
Your past is your superpower. Instead of feeling depressed, trapped, or lost in your past, leverage it to free you. Only then will you find real, lasting love from someone who truly is worthy of your heart.
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“This book got very personal, in the best way possible.
The whole time I kept thinking, is she talking about me?! And I’m sure I’m not the only reader who felt this way because the author sheds light—a very, very bright light—onto real issues that so many women struggle with. But what really sets this book apart from other dating and self-help reads is the author’s talent in taking nebulous struggles and assigning a label to them…”
— Amy Anisgarten
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In a world where emotionally unavailable men are everywhere, it seems like they are drawn to you like a magnet. Their charm, passion, and humor cause you to fall for them right before they magically disappear.
If only you could meet the right guy, then you’d be happy…
- The problem is, love doesn’t work that way.
- Love is a magnet, bringing people in who match your inner vibration and repelling people who don’t.
- When your inner vibe is fearful, mistrusting, or angry, you send signals to the world attracting similar energy.
- Still a part of you has hope. Part of you believes that love and partnership are essential to your happiness.
- This duality inside of you creates a “hot-cold” relationship to love and it is driving who is attracted to you.
- Part of you also believes you have to protect your heart, so you draw conclusions like, “all men ghost” and “you can’t trust men” …
- Then you meet someone new. He seems different, he’s going to treat you better…
- Until he doesn’t. And you’re left obsessing about his whereabouts and who he’s texting at night.
- What’s wrong with you that so many unavailable men are magnetically attracted to you?
- It’s time for some tough love so another part of you tells you to stop trusting men altogether. You tell yourself that you’re “better off alone”.
- But you’re not. You’re miserable. And constantly thinking about who has love and why you’re so unlucky.
- You tell yourself the problem is you. You need to change. Be stronger. Stop trusting so much. Take a break from love.
- But if someone could see the whirlwind inside your mind, they would believe differently. They would know that inside, you’re vibing at a whole-different level.
- Fear, insecurity, pain, and self-doubt are eating you up even as you push the thoughts away as quickly as they come in.
- And it’s these thoughts that are like food for unavailable men.
- Mr. “Not-So-Wonderful” is naturally drawn to your inner vibration, not your wishes that love were easier or that you were more loveable.
It’s time to stop playing the endless mind games with yourself about love. Love is calling you to dig in and discover how you co-create your painful relationships. So you can stop. So you can heal. So you can finally find the real love you desire.
And this is why you should Use Your Unhealthy Relationships to Awaken
Featured Reviews
“This book got very personal, in the best way possible. The whole time I kept thinking, is she talking about me?! And I’m sure I’m not the only reader who felt this way because the author sheds light—a very, very bright light—onto real issues that so many women struggle with. But what really sets this book apart from other dating and self-help reads is the author’s talent in taking nebulous struggles and assigning a label to them. Being able to refer to these abstract issues by name—really catchy ones at that, like False Goddess Complex…genius!—makes an overwhelming feeling so much easier to digest. Not only did I close the book feeling many things, like acceptance, confidence and hope, but I was also able to close the chapter on unhealthy relationships that no longer serve me. Something that years of therapy couldn’t even accomplish. Thank you, Brooke!”
“Why You Should Date Emotionally Unavailable Men” is the book every woman who has ever felt “unlucky” in love has been waiting for. Brooke’s writing is captivating and beautifully honest, as she shares her own journey of self-love and self-discovery in a way that is so relatable it almost feels as though she’s pulling from my own diary. As someone who always scoffed at people who described relationships as “hard work”, it wasn’t until I picked up this book that I realized the work to be done was on myself.”
A Little More About
Author Brooke Sprowl
I’ve been where you are…
When I was twenty-six, I couldn’t get a date. Now at thirty-six, I seem to get asked out almost every week—and by men I used to think were out of my league.
When I was younger, I had all sorts of rationalizations for why I had issues with men. I told myself I wasn’t attractive enough, that men in Los Angeles were shallow, and that “all the good ones were taken.”
At the time, I had no idea how I was playing into the problems I was having with men—or how much power I had to change them.
I know the pain, self-doubt, and powerlessness that stem from believing the problem is “out there”—blaming circumstances or men or the superficial qualities I lacked for the difficulties I experienced in relationships.
I transformed my life when I finally took the brave step to tear down the walls and took ownership for creating a new life, a new self, and a new way of being in relationships.
That kind of transformation is available to you too.
When I was twenty-six, I couldn’t get a date. Now at thirty-six, I seem to get asked out almost every week—and by men I used to think were out of my league.
When I was younger, I had all sorts of rationalizations for why I had issues with men. I told myself I wasn’t attractive enough, that men in Los Angeles were shallow, and that “all the good ones were taken.”
At the time, I had no idea how I was playing into the problems I was having with men—or how much power I had to change them.
I know the pain, self-doubt, and powerlessness that stem from believing the problem is “out there”—blaming circumstances or men or the superficial qualities I lacked for the difficulties I experienced in relationships.
I transformed my life when I finally took the brave step to tear down the walls and took ownership for creating a new life, a new self, and a new way of being in relationships.
Unhealthy relationships are symptoms that guide us to what needs to be healed within.
Only then can you learn the lessons unavailable men are in your life to teach you. And when that happens, not only will you notice their vampire-warning signs early on, but you won’t falsely loop yourself into their energy. Your higher good will lead you to other men and that magnetic pull will be broken once and for all.
That is the value of dating emotionally unavailable men. It will free you to get your life back. And nothing is more powerful than that.
A few topics covered in
Unavailable: Use Your Unhealthy Relationships to Awaken
- Reject False Goddess Complex: Get rid of the mental games our culture tells us to play and learn what true female strength is.
- Stop scapegoating: Learn to take responsibility for changing your role in relationships so you can create long-term, sustaining intimacy you desire.
- Break the Cycle of Whiplash Relationships: Identify the lessons you need to learn about yourself so you no longer repeat the same harmful patterns over and over in your life.
- Understand Co-creation Loops: Uncover the ways your behavior may unknowingly trigger the problems in your relationship and learn to see the whole picture so you can heal and grow together.
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