ABOUT DATING COACHING
As a licensed therapist and relationship expert, I specialize in helping you to identify and overcome subconscious walls that are getting in the way of finding a relationship. As we bring awareness to those walls and begin to heal, you will begin to experience your dating life in a radically new way.
Trying to find the right person can be a painful task. When we can’t seem to find a match or when we move from one failed relationship to another, we begin to question if something is wrong with us and it can become difficult to trust ourselves to navigate the complex waters of the dating world. I will help you learn to trust yourself, develop confidence in yourself, and overcome the obstacles that are getting in the way of love. I will provide you with practical exercises to develop confidence as well as help you explore the deep, underlying issues that need healing. You will learn to become free, confident, and grounded within yourself so that you can find a partner who can meet your needs.
Often dating comes with a connection to fantasy and reality colliding together, creating confusion and difficulty in certain situations. Many individuals who are currently dating have constant thoughts about trust, settling for less than what is truly wanted, or why they are broken up with. These everyday stressors can negatively impact one’s dating life and put a hold to finding a desired relationship.
Dating coaching can help you:
- Overcome self-esteem issues, insecurity, and body image issues.
- Develop more confidence in who you are and what you have to offer.
- Identify and remove subconscious walls that get in the way of potential partners seeing who you really are.
- Become aware of ways in which you may inadvertently sabotage your relationships.
- Change the unhealthy patterns in your relationships and begin to relate to your partners in a new, healthy way.
- Trace the roots of your attraction to partners who may not be able to meet your needs.
- Begin to heal the underlying issues that get in the way of having close, stable relationships with people who love and respect you.
- Become more independent so that you are entering into a partnership out of love rather than out of neediness or fear of being alone.
MULTI-DIMENSIONAL DATING ASSESSMENT
I will give you concrete feedback about how to improve your dating life by looking at all of the different dimensions that factor into attraction including:
- Body language – What message is your body language sending that you might not be aware of?
- Speech – How you speak can actually be more important to a potential match than what you say.
- Triggers – I will help you identify specific trigger points that cause you to put up emotional walls that sabotage your dating life. We will explore and overcome the underlying issues so that can interact with more openness and ease.
- Authenticity – I will help you connect with your true self so that you can make deep connections with other good people.
- Fear and anxiety – Together we will examine how anxiety and fear play into your dating life and we will begin to make choices that are guided by what you want rather than fear.
- Identifying red flags and overreactions– I will help you understand the difference between a true red flag and an overreaction based on your fears.
ONLINE DATING PROFILE CONSULTATION
With the advent of social media, online dating, and texting, dating has become more complex than ever. As someone who is familiar with the complexity and nuances of dating in the modern world, I can help guide you through the confusion and help you learn about yourself and grow in the process.
I offer online dating profile consultation services in order to help you showcase yourself in the most compelling way possible to give you the best chance of attracting your soulmate.
For many people, it can be difficult to convey their personality in writing. As a therapist and published writer, I can help you create an online dating profile that captures the essence of who you are and helps you attract the partner you’re dreaming of. I will identify what signals you are sending through your pictures and writing that you may not be aware of and I will help you create a profile that is congruent with what you really want. I will help you realign your actions, words, and pictures with your intentions.